Shall I
break-up? Am I right? Or my thinking is wrong somewhere? What if I hurt
my partner with the break-up? What if I cannot live normally after
break-up? Shall I recover from it? Should I break-up? I am having
doubts about the reasons. I am doubtful about the consequences. I am
confused. What shall I do?
After
life reaches a stage where living together becomes very painful, one
begins thinking of break-up. But the doubts can be overwhelming
sometimes. They can mar the judgment. They confuse the thinking. This
makes life further trouble some. What is the way out?
The first step
should be giving your
mind little rest. A tense mind tends to lose the way. Relax and let go
of these thoughts for few days. Involve yourself in other activities.
Relaxing your mind will give you some peace and help you think well.
After you begin feeling peaceful, begin writing down your reasons for
breaking up. Don’t miss anything. Write down all the reasons
clearly and write explanations wherever needed. This will give you
further insight into why you want to break-up.
Pluses and Minuses
- write down both
pluses and minuses of the break-up. Read them carefully and weigh them.
If necessary, consult a close friend. After you become sure that you
must break-up and that will be in your interest and in the interest of
your partner, go ahead.
The author
C.D.Mohatta writes
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