Practical Tips on How To Win An Ex Back

Ok. That one was tricky…It really depends if it’s your husband or wife you’re trying to win back. Anyway, let’s discuss both sides of the coin.

Women tend to be emotional. They will leave you not because of your looks or money but because you fail to satisfy them emotionally, and getting back with them means being able to support her emotional needs.

Men, on the other hand, will leave his partner if the relationship becomes dull or the partner is emotionally clingy. Grabbing them back means you should be able to show how you’ve matured emotionally and that you’re willing to explore new and worthwhile things with him.

In both cases, though, you would have to give your partner a breathing space to clear themselves of the pain and confusion brought by the break up. Moving forward, you must initiate contact with them…not with the purpose of begging for their time but to get along well after the tragedy.

Guys out there, aim to be attentive and listen closely to what she’s saying. That sends the message that you respect her views and feelings. It has the added plus of picking on non-verbal cues that she is getting across.

Women on the other hand should try to re-live the activities that you enjoyed together. This works as a subtle yet lasting reminder of how much he’s missing by not being in the relationship and how much you both had. It’s the perfect opportunity to show how much you’ve changed for the better.

Touching on your break-up in a conversation is a BIG NO! This’ll make you look needy and desperate…it’s not romantic…it’s SCARY.

This goes for both parties. Usually after a break up, both men and women tend to lose their healthy habits, like exercising and eating the right food to stay in shape.

You MUST get back into shape! First, this will keep your head off of the break-up, thus eliminating the chances of you appearing needy. Second, nothing will delight your ex more than seeing your newly and beautifully built body.

Any change you’ve made must be maintained within the new relationship. If you can’t promise that, by all means, forget about getting back with your ex. Otherwise, you’ll just go back to your old and hurtful habits and it will be a vicious repetitive cycle.