How To WIN Your Ex Girlfriend Back

If a so-called love doctor or dating “guru” told you that getting your ex-girlfriend back is as easy as pie…run away…run far away!

Winning your ex-girlfriend’s love back requires Herculean effort and it takes time, you must not rush it. And if you’re genuine about getting back with her and truly loves her, that’s a fact you should be ready to accept.

Before you make any move…GET THIS: Women are emotional creatures by nature.

If she was the one to initiate the break-up, most likely it’s because the relationship is not emotionally fulfilling or satisfying. And if you should have any chances of winning her back, it’s through appealing to her emotionally. Forget about the cheesy lines your friends taught you. It’s not about the words you shower her…

Its About How You Make Her FEEL

Having the courage to talk to her and doing it are the first steps to the right direction. This may be tricky especially if you just broke up, and she’s not willing to talk to you yet.

You can test it though by sending her an SMS or e-mailing her first…checking if she responds.

Whenever you get the chance to talk to her, keep this in mind: be attentive and listen!

This sends the message across that you’re doing your best to change and you’re interested in knowing her true desires as an emotional being…And that’s without saying a thing!

An added bonus is that you get some clues on how to slide under her radar and effectively flirt with her. Nothing flatters a woman than knowing she’s being desired.

Although it’s ill-advised to play games with your ex, laying all your cards down and blatantly expressing your strong desire to reconcile…that leaves you open for a stinging rejection.

It’s like walking in front of bullies with “Hit Me Hard On The Face” printed on your shirt!

This one is IMPORTANT: When you’re apart…don’t linger and get stuck in the past. Quit reminiscing the great and exciting times you’ve had before. That would only make things harder for you. Instead, keep yourself busy. Do things that would make you a better person in general not just for the sake of winning your ex back. Be engaged in sports, meet new friends, or even read inspirational books.

And LASTLY, make sure you can sustain the changes you’re making. Or else you’ll just put you and your ex-girlfriend at the risk of getting hurt and breaking up…AGAIN.

And this time, it would be impossible to win her back!